When I was in high school and everyone was around me starting to date, I figured that once I graduated my dating life would pick up. That did not happen at all. I figured it would be hard to date, but I was not prepared for it to be THIS difficult. I read something yesterday that basically said that we should go through life without having expectations. Having too many expectations is the fastest way to be unhappy. Just live in the moment–one day at a time. Whatever happens will happen, but don’t waste too much time thinking about the future because you’ll miss out on what is now.