As gay men, when most of us think of sex, we think think anal-penetration involving one person being the “top” while the other being the “bottom.” This is without a doubt, a form of intercourse (while probably being the most intense form of it) however it’s important to realize that there are other equally hot ways for you and your partner to achieve an orgasm.
Maybe some days you want to be intimate with your partner, but may not be in the mood for him “stick his plug in your socket.” Maybe you’re the one who may not feel like “sticking your plug in his socket.” Whatever the case may be, please know that you do have options! Getting “loved on” up the rear end can be extremely stimulating and fun, but it’s also one of the most risky practices if you’re not careful. That’s why I want to place emphasis on a few other satisfying things that can be done in the love making process. After all, ANY type of intercourse is considered to be an act of SEX!!!
HERE ARE A FEW ALTERNATIVE IDEAS FOR YOU AND YOUR PARTNER TO KEEP THINGS FRESH AND FUN IN THE BEDROOM WITHOUT ANAL-INTERCOURSE:
This is probably the most obvious alternative option to reaching your sexual peak. You can keep things fun while giving him a “B.J.” and use flavored condoms or tasty lubes. Take your time with it, don’t rush…
This is one that I don’t hear about very often. Frottage is when you and your partner rub against each other sexually all while having your clothes ON. For instance, you can thrust your bodies against one another wearing nothing but underwear. But hey, there are really no rules when it comes to sex so why not lose the clothes and thrust away!
I have heard confessions from so many guys about how they get extremely aroused by someone playing with or sucking their nipples. I can even recall one guy I dealt with and how he would literally transform into a different, more aggressive, person every time I even TOUCHED his nipple. It was actually quite hot!
The title of this post may exclude “full-blown” penetration (meaning climaxing while keeping your dick out of his ass) however, it doesn’t exclude the use of fingers! Try fingering him, just like you probably finger yourself every so often. This will also allow the perfect opportunity to explore his body while studying his reactions while you hit certain spots.
You know what could make this even hotter? Try masturbating while simultaneously fingering his cakes.
Sex toys are there for our entertainment. So why not be entertained!? Visit a local sex shop with your partner and you’ll see that there are endless options to spice things up. If you feel awkward about walking into a sex store, try shopping online. See guys, you always have options. 😉
This sounds fairly innocent, however, I know the power of kissing first hand. Kissing around the neck area for some guys offers a different and more exciting type of sensation. Try experimenting and kissing different parts of his body. Find his sensitive areas. Hell, make a game out of it!
You don’t always have to masturbate alone ya know!