This is something that I’m sure many of us have struggled with. For me, I’ve always been a fairly straight forward kind of guy. Well–kind of…It can be really difficult because I’m VERY in touch with other peoples emotions as if they were my own. That’s just in my nature.
Many times you just expect for guys to “read between the lines.” For instance–rarely texting them first, never initiating time to hang out, responding to their text with one word answers…etc. You would think that they would get the point after all of that. NOT TRUE Some guys need for you to spell it out to them. N-O-T–I-N-T-E-R-E-S-T-E-D…haha
There have been plenty of situations where I would give them the BREAK DOWN, but they still somehow maintain a bit of hope for to be together :/…? I’ve even told the lie that I was in a relationship (lol) and THEY STILL TRY. What the hell ever happened to respecting people’s relationships!? Geeze. Maybe I’m just a really bad liar lol.
The only advice I can offer to someone in a situation like this is to BE HONEST, not only with yourself, but ALSO with that guy who may see you as more than “just a friend.” He has FEELINGS TOO, so respect that.
04.24.2014 | 2:15 p.m.