You know one stressful thing about dating? Trying to have SEX APPEAL–ugh! It comes natural to some people, but sometimes when I take a step back and think about it, it makes me kind of sad seeing some people go the extra mile to be “sexy” for attention from the same OR opposite sex.
Now there’s absolutely nothing wrong with having sex appeal, it’s a great quality to have. But there are also SO many other great qualities in people that easily get overlooked in the “world of dating.”
Specifically, the gay community can come across as being so overly-pretentious and it’s so easy to get caught up in the madness. I understand that we are all sexual beings, but I think what I’m trying to say is that–I wish people could find their inner confidence in OTHER things sometimes.
Of course we should be sexually attractive in the eyes of the person we’re with, but leave all the exclusive shit for your partner!